And I'm sorry but that Debs woman said if people aren't getting the help in real life from the nhs they could work out their priorities and figure out how to sub to her. That is ridiculous.
Don't troll people she says, meaning really gets over to zacdabrats and be wee fs. She is so false its actually cringe worthyLuci's taking a break from the cafe and she's back live.
Her positivity is coming off as menacing. Waiting for the shouty bit.
Then they all fall out and spillThese suggestions about safe spaces are so icky and it's something that could end up very messy.
Who decides who is deserving of a space in these safe spaces? It can't be on Facebook because people don't lock their Facebooks down and it leaves their life's wide open to strangers. It's easy to make a fake account and infiltrate a discord. How do you reject someone from these spaces? Sub only doesn't work because someone can gift subs in your live then Kev down the road who scrolled past your live on the fyp is subbed and it turns out he batters his wife.
I think they need to just start calling their spaces supportive and letting people know that it can't be truly control who comments or watches but they have moderators who try to keep the live under control to the best of their ability.
It happens all the time if someone's experience isn't exactly the same as someone else's it's called out and called lies. Just look at when Becca B spoke out about diadro, one of the girls supporting her ended up flirting with him!!Then they all fall out and spill
I have never understood y anyone would come on an app and tell all their problems to strangers. I think some of these people running the lives are actually getting a bit of a kick out of itAnd I'm sorry but that Debs woman said if people aren't getting the help in real life from the nhs they could work out their priorities and figure out how to sub to her. That is ridiculous.
I’ve finally figured it out…. Angie is pitbull!
Sadly, I read into TikTok “safe spaces” as a term people use when the host doesn’t mind people trauma dumping in the boxes. I dont think they actually listen to those who talkThese suggestions about safe spaces are so icky and it's something that could end up very messy.
Who decides who is deserving of a space in these safe spaces? It can't be on Facebook because people don't lock their Facebooks down and it leaves their life's wide open to strangers. It's easy to make a fake account and infiltrate a discord. How do you reject someone from these spaces? Sub only doesn't work because someone can gift subs in your live then Kev down the road who scrolled past your live on the fyp is subbed and it turns out he batters his wife.
I think they need to just start calling their spaces supportive and letting people know that it can't be truly control who comments or watches but they have moderators who try to keep the live under control to the best of their ability.
Like Angie hosting all these `debates` but is either asleep or on her other phone laughing at other things going onSadly, I read into TikTok “safe spaces” as a term people use when the host doesn’t mind people trauma dumping in the boxes. I dont think they actually listen to those who talk
I can understand the desperation, a lot of the time victims have never been believed and it must feel so validating to have a box of people believing you. But the lives held there after picking them apart or people who know them coming forward can't be stopped. And I don't think people are prepared for that.I have never understood y anyone would come on an app and tell all their problems to strangers. I think some of these people running the lives are actually getting a bit of a kick out of it
There was a discussion there about is the term trauma dumping a gaslighting term or why do people say it. It's said because sometimes people do come in a box and without warning dump a lot of trauma on unsuspecting people because it has a slight relevance to the subject.Sadly, I read into TikTok “safe spaces” as a term people use when the host doesn’t mind people trauma dumping in the boxes. I dont think they actually listen to those who talk
These suggestions about safe spaces are so icky and it's something that could end up very messy.
Who decides who is deserving of a space in these safe spaces? It can't be on Facebook because people don't lock their Facebooks down and it leaves their life's wide open to strangers. It's easy to make a fake account and infiltrate a discord. How do you reject someone from these spaces? Sub only doesn't work because someone can gift subs in your live then Kev down the road who scrolled past your live on the fyp is subbed and it turns out he batters his wife.
I think they need to just start calling their spaces supportive and letting people know that it can't be truly control who comments or watches but they have moderators who try to keep the live under control to the best of their ability.
AbsolutelyI have a lot of feelings about this and let some of them out just now, but I just don’t like it at all. The internet isn’t a safe space full stop.
I truly think mental health support should be left to mental health professionals in professional spaces. I understand there are lengthy waiting times to access them, but that doesn’t mean it’s safer to go to TikTok. If my leg needs amputating and I have to wait to get surgery, I’m not going to ask a creator on TikTok who has played Surgery Simulator to do it for me.
Yeah I noticed you agree with some of my comments and say some of the things I said. It's just a situation that can really end up doing more harm than good.I have a lot of feelings about this and let some of them out just now, but I just don’t like it at all. The internet isn’t a safe space full stop.
I truly think mental health support should be left to mental health professionals in professional spaces. I understand there are lengthy waiting times to access them, but that doesn’t mean it’s safer to go to TikTok. If my leg needs amputating and I have to wait to get surgery, I’m not going to ask a creator on TikTok who has played Surgery Simulator to do it for me.
I think about it as more as going into a TikTok box and unloading everything…. Sometimes people go in and don’t even have any reason to shoe horn in their trauma but do so anyway. Not sure if I believe it’s gaslighting to call it that or not but I’ve not heard any of the arguments for or against itThere was a discussion there about is the term trauma dumping a gaslighting term or why do people say it. It's said because sometimes people do come in a box and without warning dump a lot of trauma on unsuspecting people because it has a slight relevance to the subject.
I think someone said it's used to gaslight and minimise the seriousness of someone's story. The same way we say unalive on TikTok as it minimises the meaning but people only say that because the other dead words get you bannedI think about it as more as going into a TikTok box and unloading everything…. Sometimes people go in and don’t even have any reason to shoe horn in their trauma but do so anyway. Not sure if I believe it’s gaslighting to call it that or not but I’ve not heard any of the arguments for or against it
The financial manipulation on the app sickens me, people will litterly do and say anything if it means they gain financially, and the sad thing about it, is there's desperate and vulnerable people who will do it.And I'm sorry but that Debs woman said if people aren't getting the help in real life from the nhs they could work out their priorities and figure out how to sub to her. That is ridiculous.
They are weirdly obsessed with age.... every message refers back to her age or your age, what a fing weirdo