Hi all,
Sorry be so absent off this thread - hope everyone ok.
Tilly - will be go to family counselling? An opportunity to all connect and find compromises on communication and boundaries and least then if nothing works or he refuses counselling - then you walk away knowing you tried everything to make it work.
Whatever you decide to do just know your worth and kids worth and that is a nice relaxed calming household - a shouty household isn’t nice and isn’t nice for anyone to feel they have to walk on eggshells.
Sending you lots of love and hugs.
My evening has been eventful
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Long story short but there a woman that I had fell out with after her dog nipped at my daughter outside school and she blamed my daughter and lied about a lot of things - we had a toxic friendship and no longer speak.
She then started to talk negatively about another friend child and today we saw then at a local summer fair at the park.
My other friend daughter was talking to my daughter about something and on walking pass said the word “weirdo” about a programme they had watched.
Anyhow the mother thought they were talking her daughter a weirdo and as we were in the shop as left the park and were nipping to shop on way home - her boyfriend stood outside the shop waiting for us
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When we left the shop he started to hurl abuse called me a gobshite, told me to do off after I told him to go away and not try and intimidate women and children - he then said he had recorded the whole conversation which is good because it will show him harassing us and us telling him to go away - well I did say do off a few times when he started to walk alongside me and blocking me.
Then the woman got involved and started messaging my friend telling us to watch our back - not that age means anything but we all in our 40s I mean it is just pathetic at this point!
It did make me giggle though and I am sure she will playing the recording and making up her own narrative.
Home now, made tea for the kids and now watching the footie before hubby finishes work.
Hope everyone is having a lovely day xx