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thelurker66 · Jun 30, 2024

SleepyLion said:
Hi all,

Sorry be so absent off this thread - hope everyone ok.

Tilly - will be go to family counselling? An opportunity to all connect and find compromises on communication and boundaries and least then if nothing works or he refuses counselling - then you walk away knowing you tried everything to make it work.

Whatever you decide to do just know your worth and kids worth and that is a nice relaxed calming household - a shouty household isn’t nice and isn’t nice for anyone to feel they have to walk on eggshells.

Sending you lots of love and hugs.

My evening has been eventful .

Long story short but there a woman that I had fell out with after her dog nipped at my daughter outside school and she blamed my daughter and lied about a lot of things - we had a toxic friendship and no longer speak.

She then started to talk negatively about another friend child and today we saw then at a local summer fair at the park.

My other friend daughter was talking to my daughter about something and on walking pass said the word “weirdo” about a programme they had watched.

Anyhow the mother thought they were talking her daughter a weirdo and as we were in the shop as left the park and were nipping to shop on way home - her boyfriend stood outside the shop waiting for us .

When we left the shop he started to hurl abuse called me a gobshite, told me to do off after I told him to go away and not try and intimidate women and children - he then said he had recorded the whole conversation which is good because it will show him harassing us and us telling him to go away - well I did say do off a few times when he started to walk alongside me and blocking me.

Then the woman got involved and started messaging my friend telling us to watch our back - not that age means anything but we all in our 40s I mean it is just pathetic at this point!

It did make me giggle though and I am sure she will playing the recording and making up her own narrative.

Home now, made tea for the kids and now watching the footie before hubby finishes work.

Hope everyone is having a lovely day xx

had to laugh at the boyfriend what childish insults and leave them to it you know the truth and they’re looking silly going for a child! When they were clearly at fault imagining labelling a child a weirdo because you failed to control your dog

allaboardthebirkeybike · Jun 30, 2024

@thelurker66 Ooooh it's sooo good. I bloody love reading but had hit a bit of a wall were I couldn't be arsed. Absolutely devoured it haha. Have to be gripped from the jump and that had me with about 1000 questions straight away that I had to carry on because I was like errrmmm I need some answers sharpish

Enjoy and yessss definitely let me know your verdict

allaboardthebirkeybike · Jun 30, 2024

@RosieJo Eeeek I've been waiting for your post!

So thrilled you both had the best time which I knew you would. I know exactly what you mean about the come down though I was the exact same. But girrrrllll we had a tiiiimeee

Awh bless you I saw loads of people in tears at various parts haha. Please don't hate me but I'm not an enchanted girly

My fella was on about the love story proposals and I was like are you thinking of proposing? Why you talking about this? What is going on?

Anyhow no ring yet girls

but he knows me well because he did say he knows I'd say no because it's unoriginal and not romantic infront of 77, 000 people which is absolutely true

How wonderful for you and your girl though. I'm so pleased you had the best time

allaboardthebirkeybike · Jun 30, 2024

@SleepyLion Hello lovely

I'm so sorry but I'm with Lurkey and couldn't help but laugh. Not only the age of him cornering you like that (ooooh soz ard

) but also the fact she has clearly told him to hahaha. What in the world? Did he have a Blue wkd tucked under his arm for effect? Dear me

I hope you get it sorted but it sounds like you pretty much have by keeping away they sound like the fing clampits haha.

thelurker66 · Jun 30, 2024

allaboardthebirkeybike said:
@thelurker66 Ooooh it's sooo good. I bloody love reading but had hit a bit of a wall were I couldn't be arsed. Absolutely devoured it haha. Have to be gripped from the jump and that had me with about 1000 questions straight away that I had to carry on because I was like errrmmm I need some answers sharpish Enjoy and yessss definitely let me know your verdict

I’ve not put it down since I started it

never been on the verge of reading a book in a day before! But I’m hooked and need answers

Standupifyouhateaimee · Jun 30, 2024

SleepyLion said:
Hi all,

Sorry be so absent off this thread - hope everyone ok.

Tilly - will be go to family counselling? An opportunity to all connect and find compromises on communication and boundaries and least then if nothing works or he refuses counselling - then you walk away knowing you tried everything to make it work.

Whatever you decide to do just know your worth and kids worth and that is a nice relaxed calming household - a shouty household isn’t nice and isn’t nice for anyone to feel they have to walk on eggshells.

Sending you lots of love and hugs.

My evening has been eventful .

Long story short but there a woman that I had fell out with after her dog nipped at my daughter outside school and she blamed my daughter and lied about a lot of things - we had a toxic friendship and no longer speak.

She then started to talk negatively about another friend child and today we saw then at a local summer fair at the park.

My other friend daughter was talking to my daughter about something and on walking pass said the word “weirdo” about a programme they had watched.

Anyhow the mother thought they were talking her daughter a weirdo and as we were in the shop as left the park and were nipping to shop on way home - her boyfriend stood outside the shop waiting for us .

When we left the shop he started to hurl abuse called me a gobshite, told me to do off after I told him to go away and not try and intimidate women and children - he then said he had recorded the whole conversation which is good because it will show him harassing us and us telling him to go away - well I did say do off a few times when he started to walk alongside me and blocking me.

Then the woman got involved and started messaging my friend telling us to watch our back - not that age means anything but we all in our 40s I mean it is just pathetic at this point!

It did make me giggle though and I am sure she will playing the recording and making up her own narrative.

Home now, made tea for the kids and now watching the footie before hubby finishes work.

Hope everyone is having a lovely day xx

Omg what a wanker that boyfriend is !! Well hard doing that to a woman and in front of kids too!!
He must look like such a dick in the recording. I am not surprised you told him to do off I would of took especially if he was doing that. Also the other woman saying watch ya backs, at nearly 40 it is pathetic

Glad you're home safe and enjoyed your evening! If it was england you were watching, that would of not done much to improve your mood

Xxx

Deleted member 1840 · Jun 30, 2024

allaboardthebirkeybike said:
@RosieJo Eeeek I've been waiting for your post! So thrilled you both had the best time which I knew you would. I know exactly what you mean about the come down though I was the exact same. But girrrrllll we had a tiiiimeee Awh bless you I saw loads of people in tears at various parts haha. Please don't hate me but I'm not an enchanted girly My fella was on about the love story proposals and I was like are you thinking of proposing? Why you talking about this? What is going on? Anyhow no ring yet girls but he knows me well because he did say he knows I'd say no because it's unoriginal and not romantic infront of 77, 000 people which is absolutely true How wonderful for you and your girl though. I'm so pleased you had the best time

Enchanted has always been a favourite of mines but it means more now since my person passed away last year. I think of him when I listen to the words. You know as they say "and then all the songs were about you" that's me since him but even more meaning now if that's even possible lol Awww girl I have had the best few days. Dublin was absolutely rammed with swifties, every turn you took there was one lol loved it so much just the entire experience. People were messaging me though when they seen I got 2 nights like almost a bit miffed cause they didn't get tickets. I replied aye and see if I could have got the 3 nights on my presale I would have so

. You tell your man to get a ring on it, life's to short not to do things now, don't wait! 🩷

allaboardthebirkeybike · Jul 1, 2024

thelurker66 said:
I’ve not put it down since I started it never been on the verge of reading a book in a day before! But I’m hooked and need answers

Oh gosh Lurkey how good is it

Can't remember the last time I was so hooked by a book. Well apart from Verity - Colleen Hoover. I absolutely recommend that

I was the same with the questions and they keep coming all the way through

Where are you upto? Don't say finished hahaha

allaboardthebirkeybike · Jul 1, 2024

RosieJo said:
Enchanted has always been a favourite of mines but it means more now since my person passed away last year. I think of him when I listen to the words. You know as they say "and then all the songs were about you" that's me since him but even more meaning now if that's even possible lol Awww girl I have had the best few days. Dublin was absolutely rammed with swifties, every turn you took there was one lol loved it so much just the entire experience. People were messaging me though when they seen I got 2 nights like almost a bit miffed cause they didn't get tickets. I replied aye and see if I could have got the 3 nights on my presale I would have so . You tell your man to get a ring on it, life's to short not to do things now, don't wait! 🩷

Oh darling

I'm sorry to hear your reasoning behind Enchanted. I didn't realise. Gorgeous for you to experience live though even though it was a bit painful at the same time

Did you end up wearing the outfits you'd said? Because I know you were taking back ups haha. Oh I cba with the whining about people going 2x or more like fing bore off. I get the jealousy. I'm jealous

but I don't begrudge it. I'd have gone feckin ten times if I could

Also saw people ranting about her VIP Box and her family don't need to go every night she should have done a competition. Like why "should" she?? People make me fing die

Oooohhh I don't think a ring is on the agenda just yet but I'll tell you what we're going on a cafe hen if it does

Imagine haha. We'd have a scream

noseyneighbour · Jul 1, 2024

Hello,

Thanks for looking out for me. I'm here. Back from holiday. It was a nice place but it was a difficult week when I was already struggling tbh.

I haven't been on since I wrote that last message. Not up to date with anything! Sorry if I worried any of you. I hope you are all ok.

Have tagged who I cud see had asked after me. (My usual crew xx)

@thelurker66
@Standupifyouhateaimee @Missy

noseyneighbour · Jul 1, 2024

thelurker66 said:
NOSEY
I checked and it’s been a week now and you said a few days!!
Can you let me know if you’re ok then I’ll leave you alone

I'm sorry..hv just wrote a post.

xx

noseyneighbour · Jul 1, 2024

Missy said:
Yes you @noseyneighbour hope you’re alright. You are missed. You also missed out on a shocker of an outfit today. And someone said she had legs like corned beef in the comments

Hi Missy, I'm here. Just posted. I'm gonna need some photographic evidence please...

Thank you for checking in with me

xx

thelurker66 · Jul 1, 2024

allaboardthebirkeybike said:
Oh gosh Lurkey how good is it Can't remember the last time I was so hooked by a book. Well apart from Verity - Colleen Hoover. I absolutely recommend that I was the same with the questions and they keep coming all the way through Where are you upto? Don't say finished hahaha

I finished it last night

I was addicted! And was so shocked throughout what an amazing book!

thelurker66 · Jul 1, 2024

noseyneighbour said:
I'm sorry..hv just wrote a post. xx

Where have you posted nosey?

Never mind I’ve seen it now!

thelurker66 · Jul 1, 2024

noseyneighbour said:
Hello,

Thanks for looking out for me. I'm here. Back from holiday. It was a nice place but it was a difficult week when I was already struggling tbh.

I haven't been on since I wrote that last message. Not up to date with anything! Sorry if I worried any of you. I hope you are all ok.

Have tagged who I cud see had asked after me. (My usual crew xx)
@thelurker66
@Standupifyouhateaimee @Missy

We have all been hunting you down! Sorry to hear your holiday wasn’t as a good as you hoped, you will get there nosey one step at a time

allaboardthebirkeybike · Jul 1, 2024

Oh @noseyneighbour Welcome Home

We missed you. Glad to see you back. I hope you managed to recharge a little and get yourself together. I also hope you managed to enjoy a bit of your birthday at least. Honestly please don't ever feel you can't rant here, it made me sad to think of you struggling and feeling a burden to us because you are absolutely not. We're always here. I do get both sides though because I sometimes want to scream and rant, others I just need the off grid silence so whatever works for you my love

But I am glad to see you back

I tell you what if you're needing a laugh check out the resident "love machines" outfit from her BRAND night out with a BRAND

noseyneighbour · Jul 1, 2024

Standupifyouhateaimee said:
@noseyneighbour
Hey twinnie I hope you're ok and stayed strong.
I think it was you birthday on the 20th ? Belated birthday wishes, I hope you managed to have a good one. Also hope you are having an amazing time away
I've not been on here much as was really shocked about that weirdo using our experiences to get at us!! Anyway I'll not go into anything as I'll wind myself up again !!

Hopefully you will be back soon as miss you xxxx

Hello Twinnie. Sorry been awol. Just did another post.
Thank you for remembering my birthday and you are correct

xx
I travelled in my birthday so it was a bit of a strange one...I don’t usually make a fuss anyway at my age!

I haven't been too great if I'm honest and one of the reasons was as u mentioned. I'm so sorry it affected you too. 🥹

I guess it made us feel exposed and vulnerable. Was really not necessary for that 'person' to invade our space on thos forum. No need at all. They knew what they were doing and I know it was about a few of the others too. Made me really cross too..not just for me.
The holiday was challenging and emotional tbh. It was a lovely place and weather was lovely. Just everything else. Really hurt by my daughter tbh. Don't know what I did to deserve it really....
I was also getting messages from HIM! I didnt tell her though as she would hv gone berserk. Believe it or not...one of the things he said was...he thinks we should start again and it will be all fresh and new???! Also said we should be keeping in regular contact please...??!! Manipulative and deluded. Really didn't need it and it did affect me.

I've missed everything on here as not been on at all. Really didn't want to come on for support after I had said I was giving myself space and for my reasons. I felt very alone in

though...

Have I missed anything in particular?

I hope you are ok and sorry for abandoning you.

xxx

allaboardthebirkeybike · Jul 1, 2024

thelurker66 said:
I finished it last night I was addicted! And was so shocked throughout what an amazing book!

It was bloody brilliant

I said I wouldn't mind watching the Netflix original series haha I bet that does become a thing

thelurker66 · Jul 1, 2024

allaboardthebirkeybike said:
It was bloody brilliant I said I wouldn't mind watching the Netflix original series haha I bet that does become a thing

It was amazing I was so confused at the ending when she claimed the daughter did it was that another lie

I’ve ordered 4 more of Lisa’s books
Then she was gone
The house we grew up in
The family upstairs
The family remains

noseyneighbour · Jul 1, 2024

allaboardthebirkeybike said:
Oh @noseyneighbour Welcome Home
We missed you. Glad to see you back. I hope you managed to recharge a little and get yourself together. I also hope you managed to enjoy a bit of your birthday at least. Honestly please don't ever feel you can't rant here, it made me sad to think of you struggling and feeling a burden to us because you are absolutely not. We're always here. I do get both sides though because I sometimes want to scream and rant, others I just need the off grid silence so whatever works for you my love But I am glad to see you back

I tell you what if you're needing a laugh check out the resident "love machines" outfit from her BRAND night out with a BRAND

Hello Birkey!

Thank you for being so kind

I hope you are ok too

I guess I rely on you all and the group too much sometimes and don't want it to be weighted down onto my s all the time.
Also did not feel nice that person using our pasts/traumas/struggles for warped content. Low blow!

I can't see her content as blocked so feel free if u can share haha. Haven't even watched much hippo either..just when it came up on my fyp. I've been avidly following the Jay story though....I just focused on those updates although a lot of bs and speculation....

Thanks again.

xx

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