Thissinglemama @thissinglemamaofficial

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Heyyy guys I hope you’re all good, this is an off the topic of shameless, but I needed some advice, back in January I started a course to become an early years educator (level 3) as both my babies are in school so I had nothing to do after doing the household chores and stuff, long story short my husband (after being influenced by other family members) said it’s best for me to stop doing the course so even though I absolutely loved it and formed a bond with the kiddos there, I’ve stayed at home since July and as much as I enjoy the free time I want to get back into doing something so without telling him I applied for another course and they rang me and asked for my details for a enrolment and induction he was all up for it and then proceeded to say “oh you don’t ever mention anything to me and do things behind my back” the reason why I did it behind his back is because I genuinely feel like he doesn’t want me to reach my full potential and every time I talk about work he shuts me down, I don’t want to have to rely on him for the rest of my life, and now on minute he’s up for it and the next minute he’s telling me not to do it, idk what to do😭 any advice will be appreciated xx
This reminded me so much of my daughter, she was in a very similar situation, she only had one child though. We as her parents supported what she was doing but her husband was against it and did everything he could to put obstacles in her way.
Anyway 7 years later, the husband is no more, she’s now a staff nurse in a busy A&E, and has a wonderful supportive partner, who is always there for her and her daughter. Always follow your dreams.
 

lolli101

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Being a mum and partner is full on. You also need something for you whether that's work, volunteering or studying. I'd ask him and his family why they don't want you to do something for yourself, something that gives you a sense of accomplishment and achievement. I wouldn't dream of discouraging a family member to study and better themselves. I'm questioning why your fella is so against it x
I’m trying to figure it out myself, it’s because he knows that I won’t need him anymore, he sees it as a threat lol, but I’m going for it whether he likes it or not lol x
 

Aimee5bellies

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I qualified this year from Uni. I wanted to prove to my little lady you can do anything you put your mind to and you are never too old, I'm 40 🙈 😂
I’ll be 43 when I graduate. Started in lockdown as wanted something to do & I couldn’t imagine jumping on the TikTok trend. I’ve got brains I wanted to use them & looking at what it’s done to bawbag face I’m glad I made the right decision 😂

Congrats on graduating
 

cate

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Heyyy guys I hope you’re all good, this is an off the topic of shameless, but I needed some advice, back in January I started a course to become an early years educator (level 3) as both my babies are in school so I had nothing to do after doing the household chores and stuff, long story short my husband (after being influenced by other family members) said it’s best for me to stop doing the course so even though I absolutely loved it and formed a bond with the kiddos there, I’ve stayed at home since July and as much as I enjoy the free time I want to get back into doing something so without telling him I applied for another course and they rang me and asked for my details for a enrolment and induction he was all up for it and then proceeded to say “oh you don’t ever mention anything to me and do things behind my back” the reason why I did it behind his back is because I genuinely feel like he doesn’t want me to reach my full potential and every time I talk about work he shuts me down, I don’t want to have to rely on him for the rest of my life, and now on minute he’s up for it and the next minute he’s telling me not to do it, idk what to do😭 any advice will be appreciated xx
It was me…. Do the course. Follow your heart. Children don’t stay little for long and soon grow up…in the future you won’t regret it. This is for you 😘
 
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I’m trying to figure it out myself, it’s because he knows that I won’t need him anymore, he sees it as a threat lol, but I’m going for it whether he likes it or not lol x
Well done you! Sometimes any change from the status quo is difficult for some partners, we get used to our lives.
However, you need to go and do your own thing and he needs to support you to do that. If not you will always have regrets and they may lead to resentment. Good luck ❤️
 

Aimee5bellies

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I’m trying to figure it out myself, it’s because he knows that I won’t need him anymore, he sees it as a threat lol, but I’m going for it whether he likes it or not lol x
You go for it! DONT LET ANYONE HOLD YOU BACK!

Regardless of them being family or friends, it’s a them issue and if it’s cos they want to control you, then I wouldn’t stand for it.. but I think that’s cos I’m a completely independent single woman who stands for no s from anyone 😂
 

Aimee5bellies

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NOW SHES CLAPPING BACK ABOUT THE DUNELM BAGS!
Like is there nothing she won’t clap back about?

complete joke Aimee you can raise awareness without showing the crap you bought and then getting offended cos people are saying it’s crap!

it takes one video of going to dunelm, highlighting the tree and how it works, no need to show what you bought. Just go get one tag, buy a decent present, and take it back without all this fing fuss and being offended!
 

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itsfine

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Morning amiee i know u read here...and yes i did comment on your dunelm video last night because ur a t...there's nothing wrong with doi what ur doin show one video of what ur doin and that's it but its about 3/4 tik toks about it so when theres that many yes u are seeking validation and hooo look at me look what im.doin which was what my comment said last night and u know what else yes I did delete my comment after a while as i had a feeling u were goin to use it aa a clap back and look here u are regardless of what ur doin ur still a fat lazy filthy stinkin.t
 

cate

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NOW SHES CLAPPING BACK ABOUT THE DUNELM BAGS!
Like is there nothing she won’t clap back about?

complete joke Aimee you can raise awareness without showing the crap you bought and then getting offended cos people are saying it’s crap!

it takes one video of going to dunelm, highlighting the tree and how it works, no need to show what you bought. Just go get one tag, buy a decent present, and take it back without all this fing fuss and being offended!
I agree 👌🏼
She has to earn money from her 3 minute clips. As her life is as boring as do so she is constantly searching for content just to boost her views! Like the BOO BAG/BOX thing… she was instantly MANIC gathering up se for her BOO BAG! She has no awareness of money as it comes so free & easy for her , so money spent isn’t the object to this scenario as it’s always about HER , she comes FIRST before anyone or anything. Im
Convinced , There’s something seriously wrong with her!
Hand on heart… I’ve never met anyone so self centred in my life.
She’s a total embarrassment!

Hope you’re reading this Aimless.
 

JustForFun

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No Aimee you got criticised because your bags were se. When you read here which we know you do music isn’t a poster ? Make it make sense. Yes you are turning a positive into a negative by clapping back you stupid bint you didn’t have a clue what you was doing you jumped on it for views the minute you said you think you did well that was your validation right there ? Your words not ours!!! You have simply clapped back because it hasn’t gone your way
 

Missy

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NOW SHES CLAPPING BACK ABOUT THE DUNELM BAGS!
Like is there nothing she won’t clap back about?

complete joke Aimee you can raise awareness without showing the crap you bought and then getting offended cos people are saying it’s crap!

it takes one video of going to dunelm, highlighting the tree and how it works, no need to show what you bought. Just go get one tag, buy a decent present, and take it back without all this fing fuss and being offended!
She doesn’t need to keep us updated when she goes back for more tags 🤣
You’ve already done it, you’ve spread awareness now please just carry on the good deed behind closed doors. It’s not necessary to keep doing it. Please go back to just emptying your shopping bags of tat, applying far too much make up on and unwrapping take aways 👍🏼🤮