I have awful credit too, but it’s from running a house I can’t afford!
I’m 26 for reference, (I’ve always wanted to ask if there’s anyone similar age to me on here or am I baby
) had to move out at 22 for my mental health … that’s a story for another day
Had to grow up quick unfortunately, and so I laugh at Aimee I really do. The fact she couldn’t move a bit of furniture, I do it every couple of months because I rearrange so much in my house
Had a very bad sprain to the foot last year taking some very heavy set of drawers downstairs on my own, all I heard off everyone was “WHY DIDNT YOU ASK FOR HELP” well for 1. I want it done NOW and for 2. I’ve taken these drawers up and down these stairs several times and always been fine to do it myself, I just was s with my positioning this time round
And also regarding your friend. I’m a strong believer that mental health comes first. No matter how much you suffer financially, if you’re in a toxic environment (home, work) you will never mentally recover. It’s the whole “if you don’t like your life, change it” mentality for me. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with going for a less pressurised job for less money. I’m one of those people I don’t want power because that comes with a hell of a lot of stress! And your work life just isn’t worth it. Your work won’t be by your side in your final days, family and loved ones will x