Couldn't have said it any better . Respect to you for being so open and yes , you're right everyone has mental health . My life isn't rosey either with a challenging nr . 15 yr old neurodivergent child , which I've had to fight for help then had it swung on me from SW ( his dad passed very suddenly when he was young ) I myself as a lone parent has struggled , but we get on with it . I'm not on the internet greeting about it or flashing my hair , nails , teeth and LV bags ( I prefer vintage designer myself and god , no , I'm anything but jealous of that train crash ! ) Absolute walloper of a human being . People with wealth tend to stay quiet about it . However , this absolute weapon and her minions really don't get it . The people on the anti Vav pages , do have children on the spectrum / not on the spectrum and DO get it . The one for me with a son serving in the forces was comparing herself to a frontline soldier's stress . NEVER ever go there unless connected to / or have someone in the forces ! Wanted to ragdoll it and still poo pooed it saying taken the wrong way . She deliberately tries to trigger people . Absolute boot !