It wasn't aimees choice to take H off her TT, she was forced into it. Someone contacted an online child protection agency saying they were H and that she didn't want to be on her mums TTs any more. There was also reports going into school and social services with regard to concerns about H if I remember right. H begging for YouTube friends in her bedroom whilst Aimee was getting sloshed online downstairs talking to her online friends.
Just before H was removed from her TT there was a steady increase in comments about H's rude behaviours, lack of manners etc. There were also a growing number of people commenting that H may have additional needs, pointing out that H stims etc and to have her assessed for autism. She absolutely doesn't want to acknowledge that H may have additional needs as it's easier to pretend everything is OK than trying to get an assessment and fighting to get any support H may need.
I suspect this holiday with Vav has worried her. She knows H is emotionally immature but doesn't want people to compare max and H, as it means she may have to do something about it. Hence the sudden turn around. H has gone from crayons and toddler spoons to skin care and fashion in a week
she's hoping H can find enough common ground with aren't we lils so they hang out and she doesn't have to parent this holiday and so that H doesn't get compared with Max.
Even if H doesn't have autism she has certainly suffered being raised by an emotionally stunted, narsastic mother that fails to put her needs first. In aimees eyes, as long as she is splashing the cash then she's a good mother but in reality she is failing to meet even her most basic needs