I want going to say anything, but i had a similar experience with her a few years ago. Nothing like as deep as you, but we got chatting via dms, bit of banter, had a laugh etc. Then totally out of the blue one day, I posted a comment in response to one of her stories which I thought might be helpful to her. In return I got a message saying Iād been up in her inbox spoiling for a fight all day (er, what?), I was this that and the other and I was now blocked. So I know the feeling, itās like where the do did that come from?
Fortunately for me thatās where it ended. My partner has no social media whatsoever so no way for her to contact him. And as for employers, Iām self employed so HA! I doubt she would have come after me anyway I dont think our online friendship was that deep. So why the huge overreaction on her side, I have no idea.