you are completely right! Thank you for replying the way you did as it allows me to see it in a different perspective xYeah it was awful at the time, it triggers you massively because u never expect someone to speak on them like that. But you have to take back control of your own feelings. Sorry for your loss, it’s the worst feeling
Did you think that was directed at you? Well, if the cap fits and all that
I feel for Alicia going through wot she is ..so I understand she want peice tbf .. xHonestly if she does, I will be shocked. If anyone said anything about my mum like Angie has about Alicias they would never be forgiven.
Please someone change their username to it so she can’t have it
Welcome thank you luv, that’s so thoughtful of you to say you truly don’t, you’re absolutely right. It’s something that almost always exists as a secretwe love you!! You've come so far. I've been in that dark place, you don't tell people that you're going to do it. I saw a video of Elphaba having an argument with a girl and her response "im going to my room to xxx myself " its all for attention and in my opinion mocking people who actually suffer with this daily. I speak on myself only but i would never admit to anyone when i went through it. I would never dream of telling anyone and it most certainly wasnt planned.
I used to tell mine 'ring them bloody ring them''Childline' on speed dial
Bet we end up with J thoughDo you think we might get a full night without Hayley cause I’m really hoping and praying for this miracle!
Absolutely this 🩵
Trigger warning: relevant SH experience
As someone nearly 3 years in recovery and 18 years addicted to self harm, I can count on one finger the number of times I “planned” it (too risky to explain, don’t want to upset anyone). All other times were sadly impulsive, frenzied and out of control. That doesn’t mean it’s the same for everyone luvs of course but true for a lot unfortunately. For the people who would plan, it was more so part of their routine as a coping mechanism.
In cases of postponing a trigger reaction (akin to Ang’s threat) and planning to self harm at a later point, it would often be as soon as privacy was available.
Source: I’ve done a lot of volunteer counselling and have a lot of hands on (haha let me joke ) experience
Please look after yourselves luvs 🩵