Yeah it was awful at the time, it triggers you massively because u never expect someone to speak on them like that. But you have to take back control of your own feelings. Sorry for your loss, it’s the worst feelingI understand that hun, I lost my dad in April and its still raw. If anyone spoke badly of my dad whether i knew them or not, i just couldn't forgive them. You're a better person than me to oversee that and definitely stronger, my hat goes off to you (if thats the saying) xx