Sevda.Ela @sevda.ela

MissyB555 said:

Forgive me as I've had a long break, but is announcing that her period has started something she does regularly? I vaguely remember her mentioning it in the past. Do we need to know this?

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She has mentioned she’s on her period in the past, but not for a while until now…

….reason being since she randomly happened to found out she had endometriosis (through a full body health check) last month…ALL OF A SUDDEN she is now beefing up BIG STYLE symptoms with this period …back ache….feeling unwell… feeling weepy….exhausted…to the point she’s not posted breakfast videos or countless (boring & full) other videos throughout the afternoon for a few days now. She knows she will now get the dimwit followers giving her loads of attention about her newly diagnosed endometriosis diagnosis….even though if she really had endometriosis…the symptoms are way worse than what she is complaining about this morning!

None of us on this thread think endometriosis is something light and not a big deal…..absolutely we do NOT think that! It’s just we doubt Sevda has Endometriosis because she would need more tests done to confirm she has it and she hasn’t had those tests. She also has never mentioned really bad excruciating pain or anything during her cycles every month or any other time when she’s not on her periods either….after all, endometriosis can flare up it’s horrible symptoms at ANY time in the month or sometimes ALL month. The most Sevda has only ever mentioned is feeling tired or feeling emotional or feeling a bit bloated when she announces to TikTok she’s on her period. She still carries on her days happily! She’s never even taken a day where she’s skipped recording much…pain or illness have never caused her to not be able to post, maybe just once because she had flu or a stomach bug…

BUT it’s very clearly obvious this behaviour NOW is ALL all to gain more content as she is going downhill fast with keeping people engaged on her videos. It was clear when she even announced she had endometriosis she knew nothing about the condition as she announced (as part of her results from the health check) ..it so unhinged and casual, as well as like an almost happy surprise! “Oh, and your girl has endo!” said in a giddy happy voice! SHE’S TOTALLY INHINGED! It also showed she clearly had NO big symptoms causing her to be rolling in sheer agony as most people with Endometriosis experience!

SO…roll on a month from her hearing about her surprising result…and ALL OF A SUDDEN Sevda is suffering to a point she cannot record videos! Unheard of with Sevda! She LIVES for TikTok!

The girl is purely trying to GAIN ATTENTION….GAIN ENGAGEMENT ON HER CONTENT…and she’s found something she will use to get that…. playing the Endometriosis card!

I, along with others watching her, do NOT buy into this all of a sudden massive theatrical drama she is conjuring up!

I think she’s feeling low BECAUSE she knows her TikTok views are getting lower and lower and she’s feeling she’s not in the fantasy limelight anymore that she once was in her head! She’s not making as much money and I think she may actually be feeling a touch of reality in the fact people are more & more done watching her. Her content is just dribble trash.

Enjoy staying off social media Sevda! I’m in no doubt either that you may be going for job interviews whist you’re playing this ‘I’m just so UNWELL guyzzzz card’. Would not surprise me! Either way, whatever the reason you are taking time off putting up videos…take a long sober look (yes, put down the drink!) at yourself, your child, your husband, your life .. and come to your senses how much you have neglected everyone and everything (even your hygiene, looks, health and sleep!).

Just watched Beckies video about celebrating 800k, she’s massively copying her Welsh ‘friends’ who she’s known for a week. Someone on her thread said 800k followers but doesn’t even have one single real life genuine friend. It reminded me of when sev went to Tunisia and Cyprus and befriended random strangers and said they were her friends. Such a sad life. No mention of these friends since. She will come crashing down when she has to get a real job, sooner or later it will happen cos her TT ‘job’ won’t last forever. No huge brand deals to speak of.

sparklecat said:

If this may be the case, then she needs to be going on with this, not spending time on her phone neglecting her. I suspect mostly she has neglected her daughter, or maybe ela does have SEN, but she’s is not doing anything about it. I truly feel sad for her if this is happening and she doesn’t know how to go about addressing it, but constantly on her phone, for what, half of Elas life, has stunted her, she makes her babyish opening packets for her, cutting food up. I work with adults with severe learning disabilities. Our main aim is to promote their independence. So I might get asked to open a packet of crisps, I say they try first, if they then need help I will. They try, and they can do it after all! But if we did it for them they would just expect that going forwards and would set them back so much. Whether Ela might have learning difficulties or not, she’s not helping

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I totally agree. As a parent of 2 girls who are not on any spectrum or have SEN, I naturally AS A PARENT, taught my girls to open packets, cut up their own food, wash and have a bath without needing help, etc, etc. Did they learn straight away? No. It took time and patience for both me and the girls each time they tried, until one by one, these age appropriate skills were learnt! Some took a while to learn!

Sevda, it’s called PARENTING!!

flipfloppy23 said:

I know this is a touchy issue but I wholeheartedly do not believe Ela is SEN. I think with proper parenting, education and encouragement she would come on leaps and bounds. Her home environment is horrific and doesn’t allow for any growth and development combined with the fact she doesn’t really have any peer socialisation with extracurricular team activities. She is completely stunted developmentally.

As much as I despise wobbly head Kuki, all it took was a week of her teaching Ela how to swim and instilling confidence in her. The same with staying with her grandparents for a week, she suddenly had tried new food combinations such a tomato in a sandwich…

It’s would be easy to slap a label on something rather than addressing the clear issue - s parenting!

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I TOTALLY agree with all you say on this matter. Ela has poor parenting and out of that …..the knock on effect has affected her development in all the areas you go on to mention.

Newhere said:

I have endo and I tell you the pain I get before my period starts is something like death!!! I wouldn’t be able to sit to have my eyebrows done, my hair done, sit there and use curlers. Stand up and do a pat lunch!!! I’m on the toilet floor screaming from pain.

We all know this on here and I can confirm with all my heart that this idiot Does not have endo. She doesn’t even have the E in endometriosis. Doesn’t come close!!!

She’s just being moody lately because she’s got into trouble with the school. Possibly no work too and she’s seeing others being invited to places.

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!! Totally agree with all you say. I’m so sorry you suffer so badly with your endometriosis Sending love

HelloHydration said:

The chicken meatballs is full of processed leftover chicken bits and not healthy at all, the cheese is also processed. Ela likes hummus, so she should give hummus in a little container for the carrots (like someone mentioned here), the grapes are fine but the rest is seriously lacking in nutrients. Sev needs to get on her TT and find some proper inspo for kids lunch boxes. She can’t be bothered to use her brain that’s the problem. Same with Aimee, swirls her coffee around each morning and can’t be bothered with her kids lunchbox. That’s cos SM has taken over their whole life and there’s no going back for them

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!! Those chicken meatballs should be banned. The health authorities in the UK are trying to get those heavily processed meat snacks banned due to the carcinogenic ingredients. I agree also those processed cheese strings have virtually no substantial nutritional value. Sevda should cut up normal cheddar cheese strips instead.

Ela is a product of Sevda's poor parenting.

I am far from the perfect parent and know I could do better at times (not making excuses but being terminally ill and being the main parent at home etc is tough) but my daughter is so much more advanced than Ela. I have ensured that she is as independent as possible; her diet could be better but we don't allow her to rule what she eats and encourage her to try new things, she is sociable, kind, caring, happy and at times sassy. I often doubt my parenting ability (I admit I find it hard) but when I see Ela I do feel so much better about my choices. Sevda is letting that girl down and she only has herself to blame!

Also why is Ela sleeping before swimming? I have never known a child who naps like Ela does at her age!

Ela sleeping at this time is a sign of poor diet. LACK OF NUTRITION

But who are we to say anything. We just trolls!

Before she got her kitchen done, begda did claim that Ela had potential neurodivergence issues. She tried to get the kid to wear ear muffs because she was sensitive to noise. What a load of tosh that was because the ear muffs lasted for about a few weeks till it was forgotten about. Just like the separation anxiety. As it’s been mentioned before, begda displays munchausen's by proxy but Ela is completely fine. She’s just a product of awful parenting.

I don't buy anything that Beggy says at all...

She claimed that ipad kid has/had separation issues/anxiety...it seems to come and go hey only seems to have this issue when it comes to school, or anything she either doesn't want to do or doesn't want to miss out on... I think she/they are confusing separation with FOMO (fear of missing out)

The sudden onset of 'endo'... didn't she have her period when they went to Cyprus?? that's why she couldn't in the pool... she managed to pack and get all giddy leading up the holiday, she managed to run around the Sofitel with the Ice Bucket acting like she was an A lister... she managed to flight to Cyprus and looked fine by me when she thought she was the Dogs Bollocks getting flowers at the airport...

I smell something here and it ain't Stacey Solomon's Cosy Cottage Airwick!!!!!

Newhere said:

Ela sleeping at this time is a sign of poor diet. LACK OF NUTRITION

But who are we to say anything. We just trolls!

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Total lack of nutrition and letting her go to bed late on school nights. We’ve seen Ela sat with Sevda on the sofa on her iPad on videos after 9pm quite a few times throughout the years. I think she goes to bed when Sevda goes to bed.

wildgoldchai said:

Before she got her kitchen done, begda did claim that Ela had potential neurodivergence issues. She tried to get the kid to wear ear muffs because she was sensitive to noise. What a load of tosh that was because the ear muffs lasted for about a few weeks till it was forgotten about. Just like the separation anxiety. As it’s been mentioned before, begda displays munchausen's by proxy but Ela is completely fine. She’s just a product of awful parenting.

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I’m pretty sure that I’ve seen Kuki’s daughter Sasha wearing the ear protectors. We all know that Sevda is a serial copycat so make of that what you will.

Begda is actually lucky that Ela will eat all sorts of foods. My nephew will only eat pita bread or some kind of bread plain no butter, no sandwich, and some crackers for snacks or rice cakes. He will not eat a single fruit or veg. Completely beige lunch. My sister sneaks his veg and fruit in a smoothie for breakfast and it has to be the same thing every day - so Begda should consider herself lucky actually

Peachey said:

!! Those chicken meatballs should be banned. The health authorities in the UK are trying to get those heavily processed meat snacks banned due to the carcinogenic ingredients. I agree also those processed cheese strings have virtually no substantial nutritional value. Sevda should cut up normal cheddar cheese strips instead.

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I have a feeling that Beg only gives her cheap foods and skimpy ingredients because Ewa doesn't eat anything she packs only the sweets.

I can't with these clowns. He stopped filming about five times and gulped down that food before Doormat swallowed her first bite! I wonder if they were bickering or if they realized that they were not alone.

flipfloppy23 said:

I know this is a touchy issue but I wholeheartedly do not believe Ela is SEN. I think with proper parenting, education and encouragement she would come on leaps and bounds. Her home environment is horrific and doesn’t allow for any growth and development combined with the fact she doesn’t really have any peer socialisation with extracurricular team activities. She is completely stunted developmentally.

As much as I despise wobbly head Kuki, all it took was a week of her teaching Ela how to swim and instilling confidence in her. The same with staying with her grandparents for a week, she suddenly had tried new food combinations such a tomato in a sandwich…

It’s would be easy to slap a label on something rather than addressing the clear issue - s parenting!

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Peachey said:

!! Those chicken meatballs should be banned. The health authorities in the UK are trying to get those heavily processed meat snacks banned due to the carcinogenic ingredients. I agree also those processed cheese strings have virtually no substantial nutritional value. Sevda should cut up normal cheddar cheese strips instead.

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Ah sorry. I didn’t realize the meatballs and string cheese were bad quality. Here in the U.S. there are similar items that are considered a better option than processed meats and cheeses. My bad.

Amazing-Sense-4853 said:

As much as I hate to give Sevda props, I will say that Ela’s lunch today was a better option. She has protein from the chicken meatballs, dairy and probiotics from the cheese & yogurt, fresh veggie and fruit options and 2 cookies as a dessert treat. To me that seems balanced vs the sugary jam sandwiches and sweet candy snacks.

Now Sevda on the other hand: does anyone who suffers from endometriosis or any major ailment where they’re in a lot of pain/not feeling well eat as much food as Sevda does at dinner time?? Downing 2 cheeseburgers and 2 sweet potatoes last night just doesn’t match someone who’s suffering from Endo. Even with severe period cramps, you’re usually so uncomfortable that eating anything heavy will just cause it to sit in your stomach and cause more bloating. Her whole “ya girl’s got Endo” doesn’t sit well with me. If she’s going to lie to get engagement, then commit to the lie 100%.

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When she gets a laparoscopy and gets a diagnosis in the Uk then I will believe it. Endometriosis cannot be diagnosed via Ultra sound. It takes Women sometimes years to get their diagnosis. She’s taking the piss and is full of s! If she’d got it then she wouldn’t be able to stand up and do her idiotic videos. Never mind a hair cut and shopping! It’s literally Days sometimes weeks in bed in absolute agony! Lying b she is! Never bothered her before!

Newhere said:

I have endo and I tell you the pain I get before my period starts is something like death!!! I wouldn’t be able to sit to have my eyebrows done, my hair done, sit there and use curlers. Stand up and do a pat lunch!!! I’m on the toilet floor screaming from pain.

We all know this on here and I can confirm with all my heart that this idiot Does not have endo. She doesn’t even have the E in endometriosis. Doesn’t come close!!!

She’s just being moody lately because she’s got into trouble with the school. Possibly no work too and she’s seeing others being invited to places.

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So very sorry you have to endure this Terrible Disease and the likes of her are actually taking the piss. Hugs for you.

HelloHydration said:

The chicken meatballs is full of processed leftover chicken bits and not healthy at all, the cheese is also processed. Ela likes hummus, so she should give hummus in a little container for the carrots (like someone mentioned here), the grapes are fine but the rest is seriously lacking in nutrients. Sev needs to get on her TT and find some proper inspo for kids lunch boxes. She can’t be bothered to use her brain that’s the problem. Same with Aimee, swirls her coffee around each morning and can’t be bothered with her kids lunchbox. That’s cos SM has taken over their whole life and there’s no going back for them

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Them Chicken meatball things are full of eyeballs and Butt holes. She could make her homemade ones for the week. But she won’t because it’s all about convenience for her. Lazy b!