Yes I agree. For most of the kid’s life, she is used to seeing her mother talk into a phone, to the ‘guys’. Not a good upbringing at all. She has a dad she cannot even communicate with, as he’s not learned English and ela has been taught minimal Turkish. Imagine that?!? She never does anything with Ela, unless it’s gifted or she can meet up with others. She did the token face mask pampering session. Forced for the camera, probably only lasted 5 mins, and ela said was best time of her life. How sad.
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Towards the end of the packed lunch video, so fake (more than usual) acting like she’s in pain. ‘Hope the day’s kind to you’ *long eye blink* - another of Kuki’s phrases and mannerism she’s copied. She gave up cutting the last of the carrot as she couldn’t be bothered, you can tell. Doesn’t give a s about anything this beg.
She should have eaten the Bread and left out the Burgers. Which are very high in saturated fats. She Honestly is so Thick! Why 2 sweet potatoes and why sour Cream? Salt and pepper would have sufficed surely. And please leave the fing Crap off! You cannot Taste the Food for Crap.
1 million % Agree. She is a wolf in sheep’s clothing.I don’t know, she is just as a bad I think. She probably was just being cheeky to him. She’s the one that feeds him copious amounts of crap food as he doesn’t cook. She also monitors Beg’s comment section and issupportive of her TikTok career.
Just my observations so please don’t be offended!
Deflecting the blame onto someone else. Typical Narc Trait
What I don’t understand is why doesn’t she have a substantial healthy breakfast. Instead of the overloaded sugar filled Belvita Crap she’s eating? How about some Strawberries, blueberries and some weetabix? Oh my bad sorry. They discarded you like the useless Lump you are!
You can apparently make Your own choices because you’re an adult (Term used lightly)
Your Daughter is your responsibility so Feed the Bucktooth Brat healthier meals!!! That is called being a good parent!
You can apparently make Your own choices because you’re an adult (Term used lightly)
Your Daughter is your responsibility so Feed the Bucktooth Brat healthier meals!!! That is called being a good parent!
I remember being at school, vaguely, I’m 48
I know times have changed, but at the time it came to lunchtime I was so hungry, I looked forward to it. At times I had school dinners, sometimes I had ‘pat’ lunches. My ‘pat’ lunches were basic of a sandwich, packet of fruit, sometimes crisps, flask of juice. After morning of lessons, I looked forward to it. Even if something I didn’t particularly like, I would eat it. Food is good. This pandering she is doing, it’s wrong. My son has had issues at school to be fair, he had school dinners, then he became vegetarian. School didn’t provide sufficient vegetarian options (he decided this himself, I’m not vegetarian, we worked through it to negotiate foods all family could eat. I obviously established whether he was just being picky. Several years on, no, it is his choice) so, he did say he didn’t even want to take packed lunches, on questioning why, he actually did tell me that he didn’t get much time. This is year 9. At the age ela is, he did get time. I went through the issue thoroughly. He was being bullied. I’m not saying this is the case with ela, but maybe something is going on at school she needs to address directly with the school. Not just take Ela’s word, be a parent, ask, no excuse for just giving her s pat lunch ! Edited, too many typo as autocorrect xI hope this doesn’t offend anyone but I predict Sevda claiming a SEN diagnosis for Ela purely as an excuse for her limited diet any day now.
Someone asked in the comments recently if Ela was autistic and her response was “not that we are aware of” which is a very odd thing to say. I bet that insufferable Munchausen SIL has been planting the seed that Ela is undiagnosed but definitely 100% is autistic. Sevda is dumb (and lazy) enough to go along with it.
Someone asked in the comments recently if Ela was autistic and her response was “not that we are aware of” which is a very odd thing to say. I bet that insufferable Munchausen SIL has been planting the seed that Ela is undiagnosed but definitely 100% is autistic. Sevda is dumb (and lazy) enough to go along with it.
Does anyone remember from a few months ago , someone commented that they had seen Sevda out and about but she couldn't come
and say hello as her daughter was crying about something... Sevdas response was " did she see me in so and so shop ?" .( I can't remember which shop it was )The ladys response was " no , you were at the Butterfly Room "
I remember several of us on here googled it thinking it was a bar or restaurant or something, but it's not ! Who was she there for ? Sedat ? Ela ? Herself ? Who knows?!
I think you may be onto something here. It’d never entered my head but thinking about it ….
If this may be the case, then she needs to be going on with this, not spending time on her phone neglecting her. I suspect mostly she has neglected her daughter, or maybe ela does have SEN, but she’s is not doing anything about it. I truly feel sad for her if this is happening and she doesn’t know how to go about addressing it, but constantly on her phone, for what, half of Elas life, has stunted her, she makes her babyish opening packets for her, cutting food up. I work with adults with severe learning disabilities. Our main aim is to promote their independence. So I might get asked to open a packet of crisps, I say they try first, if they then need help I will. They try, and they can do it after all! But if we did it for them they would just expect that going forwards and would set them back so much. Whether Ela might have learning difficulties or not, she’s not helping
I know this is a touchy issue but I wholeheartedly do not believe Ela is SEN. I think with proper parenting, education and encouragement she would come on leaps and bounds. Her home environment is horrific and doesn’t allow for any growth and development combined with the fact she doesn’t really have any peer socialisation with extracurricular team activities. She is completely stunted developmentally.
As much as I despise wobbly head Kuki, all it took was a week of her teaching Ela how to swim and instilling confidence in her. The same with staying with her grandparents for a week, she suddenly had tried new food combinations such a tomato in a sandwich…
It’s would be easy to slap a label on something rather than addressing the clear issue - s parenting!
Absolutely agree. I have dyscalculia. Before kids, I had an amazing career in IT, it didn’t hold me back. So if she goes along that route, it’s not really an excuse. I cannot do mental maths, even numbers under 10. When my sons were Ela’s age, I absolutely could not help with their maths homework. I don’t slate Sevda for this, because I had the struggles myself. I gave up my job back then because I wanted to focus on my boys, and with their dad’s income, we could afford. This is 16 years ago. My sons laugh at me that I can’t add up, but I didn’t hold them back, they help me if anything. But I encouraged, didn’t give them processed sugary foods. I made most things from scratch. Granted, I did have the time to do this, but Sevda does, and yet she is still not putting time into her child. There are other ways. This diet she is giving her is not helpful. She is clearly holding her back, keeping her as a baby. Sedat can’t help, because he can’t even speak the same language of his own daughter. Young children learn languages quite easier, when taught as young as possible. My son speaks fluent Spanish. I’m not Spanish, I can speak French and German, never myself learned Spanish other than to get by. Because my son has an interest in it so has learned it. Ela has parents one of who speaks English (debatable) the other is Turkish, yet no effort has been put in to teach either Ela sedat both. Because as all things it seems, I effort is made.
As much as I hate to give Sevda props, I will say that Ela’s lunch today was a better option. She has protein from the chicken meatballs, dairy and probiotics from the cheese & yogurt, fresh veggie and fruit options and 2 cookies as a dessert treat. To me that seems balanced vs the sugary jam sandwiches and sweet candy snacks.
Now Sevda on the other hand: does anyone who suffers from endometriosis or any major ailment where they’re in a lot of pain/not feeling well eat as much food as Sevda does at dinner time?? Downing 2 cheeseburgers and 2 sweet potatoes last night just doesn’t match someone who’s suffering from Endo. Even with severe period cramps, you’re usually so uncomfortable that eating anything heavy will just cause it to sit in your stomach and cause more bloating. Her whole “ya girl’s got Endo” doesn’t sit well with me. If she’s going to lie to get engagement, then commit to the lie 100%.
Now Sevda on the other hand: does anyone who suffers from endometriosis or any major ailment where they’re in a lot of pain/not feeling well eat as much food as Sevda does at dinner time?? Downing 2 cheeseburgers and 2 sweet potatoes last night just doesn’t match someone who’s suffering from Endo. Even with severe period cramps, you’re usually so uncomfortable that eating anything heavy will just cause it to sit in your stomach and cause more bloating. Her whole “ya girl’s got Endo” doesn’t sit well with me. If she’s going to lie to get engagement, then commit to the lie 100%.
I have endo and I tell you the pain I get before my period starts is something like death!!! I wouldn’t be able to sit to have my eyebrows done, my hair done, sit there and use curlers. Stand up and do a pat lunch!!! I’m on the toilet floor screaming from pain.
We all know this on here and I can confirm with all my heart that this idiot Does not have endo. She doesn’t even have the E in endometriosis. Doesn’t come close!!!
She’s just being moody lately because she’s got into trouble with the school. Possibly no work too and she’s seeing others being invited to places.
The chicken meatballs is full of processed leftover chicken bits and not healthy at all, the cheese is also processed. Ela likes hummus, so she should give hummus in a little container for the carrots (like someone mentioned here), the grapes are fine but the rest is seriously lacking in nutrients. Sev needs to get on her TT and find some proper inspo for kids lunch boxes. She can’t be bothered to use her brain that’s the problem. Same with Aimee, swirls her coffee around each morning and can’t be bothered with her kids lunchbox. That’s cos SM has taken over their whole life and there’s no going back for them
Endo girl here. I’m no longer suffering as I had endometrial ablation, that didn’t work, till I went through early menopause and no longer have periods. But, when I was suffering, I went through 6 years IVF, bled, clots, a few times out in public. Clots that felt like I was giving birth, not to mention embarrassment and subsequent iron deficiencies. I couldn’t have stood up to make a meal. Let alone eat. No. She’s having a bad period, not nice, bits she’s using this from the elf check and to make her fick followers feel sorry for her.
I am gob smacked the school allows this crap in her lunch box and the 'snack'... and the lunch time supervisors haven't clocked the s in there and reported it!
Its been many years since mine were at school... around 15/16 actually
even back then they were strict on what they could have for lunch and snack. they banned all chocolate/cake bars for snack (mine used to take a penguin or similar) they insisted on fruit or Veg sticks...My 2 did eat fruit/veg at home but they liked their fruit etc. cold from the fridge and refused eat warm cucumber sticks or a (in their words manky apple) that had been banging around in their bottom of their bag all morning... so I started giving them Cheese strings, they banned them too, said they were processed and if they wanted cheese it should be 'proper' cheese... They were not allowed ANY chocolate, cake or biscuits in the lunch box and the dinner time assistants policed this... their lunch box was a sandwich, piece of fruit, yogurt and a packet of crisps... which TBH is what they would have at home!
Its been many years since mine were at school... around 15/16 actually
even back then they were strict on what they could have for lunch and snack. they banned all chocolate/cake bars for snack (mine used to take a penguin or similar) they insisted on fruit or Veg sticks...My 2 did eat fruit/veg at home but they liked their fruit etc. cold from the fridge and refused eat warm cucumber sticks or a (in their words manky apple) that had been banging around in their bottom of their bag all morning... so I started giving them Cheese strings, they banned them too, said they were processed and if they wanted cheese it should be 'proper' cheese... They were not allowed ANY chocolate, cake or biscuits in the lunch box and the dinner time assistants policed this... their lunch box was a sandwich, piece of fruit, yogurt and a packet of crisps... which TBH is what they would have at home!
Hey sev. You’re not feeling great today because you’ve come on?
Well, I have roughly a 10-12 day period, and three days of that are HELL (those few days can happen anytime within the two weeks).
I went to work this morning, when I got there I realised that on the journey I had leaked a little because suddenly it was heavy and I was unprepared, ontop of that I’m in a lot of pain.
I had to carry on with my day as normal in the office because THATS WHAT YOU DO!
You don’t go online looking for sympathy and begging for comments and everyone thinking suddenly poor Sevda because she’s told everyone she has endo and now has to pretend to have it.
FFS SEVDA, try having REAL PROBLEMS! You have NEVER EVER before complained.
Go jump in front of a bus or something you useless animal.
Well, I have roughly a 10-12 day period, and three days of that are HELL (those few days can happen anytime within the two weeks).
I went to work this morning, when I got there I realised that on the journey I had leaked a little because suddenly it was heavy and I was unprepared, ontop of that I’m in a lot of pain.
I had to carry on with my day as normal in the office because THATS WHAT YOU DO!
You don’t go online looking for sympathy and begging for comments and everyone thinking suddenly poor Sevda because she’s told everyone she has endo and now has to pretend to have it.
FFS SEVDA, try having REAL PROBLEMS! You have NEVER EVER before complained.
Go jump in front of a bus or something you useless animal.