mjbyrnex - Mel

muggedoffff said:

Mel people stare at you because you have an incredibly strange face and you’re shaped like a linebacker

Also I thought she was out with her husband? Bet he ditched her for 1:1 time with his ‘friend’

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Oh God, is she telling everyone she's a public figure again who's starting to get noticed?!
I've not watched any of her se tonight but it sounds like the ale's kicking in if she's alluding (or deluding) to being famous again.

Just as a general comment, why's she mentioning these forums again too? She's not mentioned us for ages.
Does anyone on here post on Tattle? Her thread over there has died since NotSubmissive went on holiday.
Someone needs to resurrect it and get it to the top again!

ringergonemad said:

She didn't reply back to me when I messaged her. And that's why am here because a lot of people have been treated the same. She mentioned this forum for us all to come see Because that's normal

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That’s how I ended up here! And many others. I started reading here and that’s when I realised the truth about her. How clever of her to advertise this page and make people realise the truth about her

NotBuyingIt said:

That’s how I ended up here! And many others. I started reading here and that’s when I realised the truth about her. How clever of her to advertise this page and make people realise the truth about her

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Snap!
I quite liked her at first and it was only when she mentioned here and Tattle that I came to have a look.
I didn't actually agree with some of what I read at first but the penny quickly dropped.
And once it's dropped it became very easy to see through her facade.
The bottom line for me is that she's not interested in helping people. It's all about making enough money to pack her job in (her colleagues will be delighted when she eventually does leave, whichever way that happens!) and she simply wants to be TikTok famous. If it wasn't about the money she would turn the gifting off when she's on a live.
She ignores comments, messages and does nothing whatsoever to actually help the very people she's claiming to help. She derides people if they ask a question she doesn't like. That's when she really shows her true colours.
She bandies the word narcissist around so frequently it's long since lost its meaning when she uses it. Anyone who doesn't idolise her, kiss her arse, pay her money or who challenges her thoughts is a narcissist according to Melvyn.
It's healthy to have debates and challenge opinions. One of my longest standing friends is politically the polar opposite of me but we have some real meaty healthy debates. There's no malice or hidden agenda behind any of it. We enjoy a good debate and challenging the other to see a different perspective but Melvyn seems unable to do that in a healthy way.
She's almost 31 years old but is very immature for her age. Simply being married and having a mortgage doesn't make her the worldly wise woman she thinks she is.

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Why do men stare at her she asks? Because you are a freak of nature luv!!!

All the tiktok twats advertise tattle and here and then send people to find the truth. Absolutely love that for them. And love that for us as well as it means more people on our train, seeing them all for what they are.

BullshitDetector said:

Why do men stare at her she asks? Because you are a freak of nature luv!!!

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They're probably saying to their mates any/or all of the following:

Can you believe that's Shag Bandits wife?

That's her with the fanny rash and hairy nips.

Don't she look like Mel Smith?

WTF's she come as?

Had we better clear those plates away?

muggedoffff said:

Mel people stare at you because you have an incredibly strange face and you’re shaped like a linebacker

Also I thought she was out with her husband? Bet he ditched her for 1:1 time with his ‘friend’

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A linebacker ,
She's also like the Honey Monster with some cheapo crap contouring! As if the men of Cleckheaton are stood drooling over big Mel on her day release from the squat!
Even her own husband is choosing to look at his phone rather than her on their day release. She really thinks she's the jewel in the Cleckheaton crown! The reality is she's a closeted gay woman with a dopey husband, a well ugly mush, a dirty gob & a face not even her own mother luvs! Bet the fellas think the circus has come to town when mammoth Mel strides into town!

Why when I see tiktoks of Mel do I have a strong suspicion that she stinks of mouldy washing?

GossipGal said:

Why when I see tiktoks of Mel do I have a strong suspicion that she stinks of mouldy washing?

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She’s a fatty and she’s filthy so she will have thrush in all her skin folds under the belly, arms and boobs. Fungal stench will be coming off her so you’re quite right.

ComputerSaysNo said:

They're probably saying to their mates any/or all of the following:

Can you believe that's Shag Bandits wife?

That's her with the fanny rash and hairy nips.

Don't she look like Mel Smith?

WTF's she come as?

Had we better clear those plates away?

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Mel smith that’s EXACTLY who I’ve been trying to think of for months I’ve been trying to think who it is

Missy said:

Mel smith that’s EXACTLY who I’ve been trying to think of for months I’ve been trying to think who it is

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And here she/he is

I love how Mel's anxiety for leaving the house completely vanishes when she goes to the pub for a p1ss up! The joys of being a 1 night a week step parent!

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Some hilarious comments!
Tik Tok really does attract some dross, Mel being a case in point! Tik Tok fame is where freaks like Mel, Nanna B, Becki Jones, Markusemzzz, Elephaba, Falasious, Aimee, Stephanie V, all freaks who seek fame, if you can call Tik Tok fame real fame Like the rest of them Mel is just a narc desperately seeking Tik Tok money by any means.

I've finally caught up with her videos
She's on a night out with her loving idolising flower buying husband - who's actually engrossed in playing on his phone instead of talking to who he married - so she decides to film a TikTok
Along walks a young lad who says words to the effect of "ooh you're nice" and Melvyn takes that as being hit on
He doesn't stop and chat to this overwhelming beauty that he sees before him, instead choosing to carry on walking.
And Melvyn interprets that as someone trying to chat her up.
Are they inbreds in Cleckheaton?
Poor lad. Finally sees the woman of his dreams and she's talking to her reflection on her phone.

Mel repeatedly says that her three times a day trauma dumping online is healthy... It's funny how qualified professionals don't see it Mel's way!

"Constantly talking about past trauma is generally not considered healthy, as it can prevent proper processing and healing, potentially leading to re-traumatization and hindering your ability to move forward; while discussing traumatic experiences with a trusted person or therapist can be beneficial, excessive focus on the past can be detrimental and may indicate an urgent need for further professional support"

Saying It As It Is said:

Mel repeatedly says that her three times a day trauma dumping online is healthy... It's funny how qualified professionals don't see it Mel's way!

"Constantly talking about past trauma is generally not considered healthy, as it can prevent proper processing and healing, potentially leading to re-traumatization and hindering your ability to move forward; while discussing traumatic experiences with a trusted person or therapist can be beneficial, excessive focus on the past can be detrimental and may indicate an urgent need for further professional support"

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100% correct.
But all Melvyn sees is £ signs so she offsets her mental health against a few extra quid to spend in the tip shop.
What a superb advocate she is for people who are genuinely traumatised by their childhoods eh?
She could well be causing a heck of a lot of harm if vulnerable people follow her lead.

ComputerSaysNo said:

100% correct.
But all Melvyn sees is £ signs so she offsets her mental health against a few extra quid to spend in the tip shop.
What a superb advocate she is for people who are genuinely traumatised by their childhoods eh?
She could well be causing a heck of a lot of harm if vulnerable people follow her lead.

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Ive never known anyone focus so much on their past, day in day out. It's depressing! Therapy is where I processed my trauma. Obviously bits pop up every now & again but if I did what Mel does day in day out I'd be so mentally ill. Mel's normalized what she does so I bet the people around her won't dare say a word about it to her. There's a reason mental health professionals are trained to help traumatised people. Like you say, she really could cause harm to a vulnerable person who follows her lead. She'll have blood on her hands when it goes wrong just for a few quid.

Saying It As It Is said:

Ive never known anyone focus so much on their past, day in day out. It's depressing! Therapy is where I processed my trauma. Obviously bits pop up every now & again but if I did what Mel does day in day out I'd be so mentally ill. Mel's normalized what she does so I bet the people around her won't dare say a word about it to her. There's a reason mental health professionals are trained to help traumatised people. Like you say, she really could cause harm to a vulnerable person who follows her lead. She'll have blood on her hands when it goes wrong just for a few quid.

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Didn't she say she spoken to her therapist or got back in touch with her to talk? My therapist wasn't a loud contact after our time together and certainly didn't give me advice! They are their to sit and listen not give advice! Me speaking to a stranger helped massively and I think am ok but we all have our days. She is bloody lucky to get it paid for I think the brother said and then had the cheek to leave the company and bash them for not promoting her love your not working there for your not reliable or trustworthy!

You are blessed that your boss hasn't got rid of you for being a piss taker.