She is just yet again thinking more about what people will think of her not max.
Or a size MEDJUM as she says and spells!That she isn't perfect gawjus or a size 12Also she will be here in no time when she finds out about this
I think it the one next to the nursery he went to, even thought she doesn’t stay in the city there is people I know who aren’t happy she got a space and their children did not for max to not get a space just the fact she stays in Ellon and it’s a city school.
Cue the chavvy bag with his name on it instead of what he would actually like. She’s on the hunt for freebies sounds like!
There are millions of ways she could be engaging him. She needs to looks for different ways to what’s considered normal. She doesn’t look therefore she is choosing not to engage. You’re right. She’s embarrassed by him in public. She’s vile.Call me crazy but she could be spending more time with him, instead of recording a video saying she would like to spend more time with him.
oh Brendan you’re in the bad books. How dare you drop vav for someone who is more valuable to your business!! She’s seething 
I try not to talk on the subject because I don’t know anything about it. But my take is she’s struggling with how Max is, he doesn’t fit her mould of what she wants him to be, finds his loudness embarrassing. I say this because of the terminology. She could have said max is loud and we’d have understood. Instead she said ‘extremely loud’.. emphasis on the noise he makes over anything else. Tears flowing when discussing the noise and being in a public setting.
Nothing wrong with speaking doric and I encourage it because it's becoming a lost language but don't talk like you have some sort of speech impediment and say its coz your scottish
He would probably love to paint all kids love to paint and get messy, she could create sensory station for him but instead he is kept in that house on a beautiful day while she is on doing crying videos because she is embarrassed nothing to do with max she is, their is loads of places she could take him around Aberdeen and the shire she doesn’t wonder why plenty of groups to go to she doesn’t maybe has something to do with her reputation, she didn’t raise lily so has no idear and now max is not consider a normal child no one would bat an eye if they are out but Steph wants them to so she can make content, she has really hit a nerve with me and that video as she is just a lazy parent and the Huns who have autistic children need to wake up and see what she is really like.
I think she is embarrassed but his stimming will get louder as he gets older and that stimming could turn into very loud moans and groans depending on how brain damaged he is and the long term affects of his long term health. He is very loud already but that's not his fault and yes she can't hide her annoyance must be hard for her when she's trying to make her ' content'
She literally makes my blood boil I’ve got one son who vocally STIMS and my other can speak he stims everywhere we go! I’m normalising that when he does it what’s with her!
You are spot on, without having an inside knowledge of autism you can see it for exactly what it is. What were seeing is an embodiment of her emotions which are not aligned with her experience. Does she think these noises are going to go away? If anything hes getting worse as he gets older and his voice changes. Yes it will be hellish to hear a mans voice doing that but again what are her expectations here. Just as he will be a strong man needing to be using disabled toilets to be changed if she doesnt try a few times a year every year to see if he will ever be ready instead of brushing this off as something he just cant do.
Could see it in her eyes when she was trying to push the tears out she is the one who is annoyed about his stimming, her child is 5 and away to start school in an environment where he will be around other children,she is so worried about how he is in public in this day and age their is so many more disabilities people aren’t shut away but that’s what she is doing with max no toys in the garden probably because it is the worse garden for a child who doesn’t understand dangers but that was her selfish way of showing off renting that house not one bit safe for her child to play so he is stuck indoors. She doesn’t take him anywhere and the Huns that are from Aberdeen why not meet up with them they blow smoke up her arse enough probably because she is worrred they will see the real her everyone does eventually that’s why everyone who knew her has fed off.
She might as well make the money for the institution she is setting him up for by failing him every second hes with her. No routine, no structure, no planned activities inside or outside of the house, which should be the same day in and day out for him to understand right this is when mum will be reading a book and the house is quiet and im not allowed up the stairs etc - but max has no boundaries, allowed to do what he likes and has zero routine.
(not my opinion but it seems to be hers) She’ll spend more of her day talking into her phone to nobody than communicating with her son. That’s something she should be ashamed of, not what fing bag he’s going to take to school. His vocal stims are probably because he’s on his own wandering around the house whilst his Mother ignores him. He’s bored witless.she took him to the local swimming pool and he had a melt down which embarrassed her so she didnt take him back. There is no consistency. She needs to do some parenting courses that will give her confidence to deal with these situations and give her the tools that she clearly doesnt have.It’s her that needs to be educated on autism and the many varied ways you can engage with an autistic child, as it is dependant on the child as to what will engage them. She should know the things Max loves. He loves water, so base your activities around that. He looked mesmerised by the fish at the aquarium - extend that interest. She clearly doesn’t try or see the point. He can’t talk so that’s it
