I think everything has to be backed up with receipts, or it’s essentially speculation, reporting Aimee to the DVLA was the correct thing to do because it’s all evidence based with receipts.
Aimee does neglect Harpers basic needs, by poor diet, teeth hygiene, and poor parenting, emotionally unavailable and not helping with her additional learning needs, but it’s nothing that SS will entertain. She’s just a s mum of which there are thousands of s mums around and dads. So if anyone does report her just make sure it’s not going to make these sites look like dicks.